5 Tips to Make Your Swinger Profile Stand Out

Swingers are couples who’ve realised that they want to engage in sexual intimacy and emotional relationships with other people. To the uninitiated, this might look as though they don’t love each other or the sexual spark has gone out of a relationship. However, for most swingers, this couldn’t be further from the truth.

If you’ve both decided that you want to enter into the world of swinging, you might be wondering where to start. There are plenty of swinging sites on the internet and the first step towards broadening your horizons is to post a profile picture and a bit about yourselves.

To make a connection with like-minded people, you need to do a little bit of research before you create your profile. Have a browse of swingers sites and see what grabs your attention. Whose profile really stands out from the crowd? If you were looking to connect with swingers online, what would make you pause before ‘swiping left’ (metaphorically speaking)?

Those who are successful on the swinger scene create profiles that are fun, flirty (without being too over-the-top) and engaging, and that’s what you need to be aiming for.

The best advice is to be as truthful as you can about what you’re interested in and frame it in a positive light. Don’t give away too much about yourself to begin with; that’s best saved until you’ve made a connection. However, you’ll need to supply enough information that someone else will be interested in what you’ve got to offer.

If you’re starting out as swingers, here are a few tips on how to make your swinger profile really stand out.

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What not to do – what to avoid in swinger profiles

The first step is to do some homework. While you’ll find a growing number of swingers’ sites out there in cyberspace, not all are created equal. Take some time to read user reviews or even join a few as a basic member. This usually doesn’t cost anything, and you can get an idea of the type of people using them and how they present themselves.

If you’re going to create a good swinger profile, you need to be engaging and make yourself appealing. But go too overboard with the innuendos and sexual double entendres and you could end up looking like a bit of a berk, or even worse, a bit creepy.

  • Don’t get too explicit from the outset. Keep it toned down and respectful. If you want to get saucy then keep it to private messages once you made a connection.
  • Don’t dive straight in saying what you do and don’t want to do. While ground-rules are part of the experience, they come later on, again, once you made a connection.
  • Don’t lie on your profile – if you’re an older couple then don’t be tempted to massage the numbers to make yourself 20 years’ younger than you really are.
  • Don’t give too much information away – keep things such as your geographic location private until you’re ready to take the next step.

How to make that profile stand out

The basics might appear pretty simple, but it’s how you approach them that can separate your profile from the thousands of others on the internet. Here are our top five tips to making your swinger’s profile the one that other users will want to engage with:

The basics might appear pretty simple, but it’s how you approach them that can separate your profile from the thousands of others on the internet.  Here are our top five tips to making your swinger’s profile the one that other users will want to engage with:

  • When choosing your username, make it something flirty, sexy and fun. Although it might only be one word, you can use it to give people an inkling as to who you are and what you’re looking for.
  • While you want your profile picture to be attractive, it should also be accurate. Having photos that actually look like you can save on any awkward situations and disappointment further down the line.
  • Don’t be afraid to make your profile photo sexy. Many swingers only post photos of their bodies, keeping their faces out of the spotlight until they make a connection. However, your body is an asset in the world of swinging, so dress it up and show it off.
  • Spend time on your biography. While there are likely to be certain dislikes you have, it’s far better to focus on what you do like. Dislikes can be discussed in private communications. Your biography is your virtual baited hook and you want to attract as many ‘bites’ as possible.
  • Don’t feel guilty about telling the odd porky. Online security and keeping your private life private are essential to swinging. As long as you’re not being deliberately misleading, making your location a few miles away from where you are or even taking a few years off your age is perfectly acceptable. You don’t want a malicious user to be able to work out who you are through a few seemingly-innocuous details.

If your ready to engage head first towards this exciting adventure, be sure to check out this article, for everything you need to know before you get into swinging.

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Tips for male and female users

While you might be part of a couple, you might also just as easily be a ‘swingle’ man or woman. Read this, for more information on the benefits enjoyed by a swinging couple!

Here are a few tips to help you navigate the waters of the swinging kingdom.

For men

  • Dick-pics are boring and predictable. A swinger is going to want to see much more than your genitals, so keep them out of the frame unless you’re asked otherwise.
  • Do say something about yourself in your profile, even if you’re part of a couple. While you might be tempted to put your wife or girlfriend in the limelight, you are part of the equation and you may be putting people off if you don’t appear to be involved.

For women

  • Don’t be afraid to strike a sexy pose or two. Show off your assets as best you can, even if it doesn’t feel entirely natural. In the world of swinging, you are your own best advert.
  • Don’t be afraid to state any lines you’re not prepared to cross. That’ll save any unnecessary embarrassment when you get face-to-face and will help to sort out the wheat from the chaff.
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