The steps to becoming a male sugarbaby
Becoming a male sugarbaby is on the surface as easy as signing up for a sugar mommy or sugar daddy dating site that matches you with sugar mamas and sugar daddies.
You can also work in circles in-person and see if any older person catches your eye, and you catch theirs.
From there it is just a matter of setting up the arrangements and going through with it. So, how do sugar daddy / mommy relationships work?
Well, when it comes to becoming a male sugarbaby it is important to know what you are getting into. A male sugar baby is someone who entertains an older woman or man physically in exchange for financial support and material goods, and you will need to evaluate yourself before you start.
This means taking stock of a few key things about yourself. Doing so will set you up to be a male sugarbaby the correct way, which is safely and intelligently:
- Are you physically attractive? What are your strengths? – Being physically attractive is a great help for finding a sugar mommy or sugar daddy, as it is an easy selling point to someone that doesn’t know you. If you can admit to yourself that you aren’t attractive, don’t worry, you may still have strengths that will attract a sugar daddy or mommy to you. Evaluate what those are and see if there is a market for that.
- What are you willing to do? – It is important to understand your own interests going into a sugar dating relationship. You are going to be confronted with people who will want to do things that might seem strange, so make sure you know what is okay for you and what isn’t.
- Who are you willing to do that with? – Related to the previous point, it’s important to have some integrity here and establish a standard for who you are willing to have as either a sugar daddy or sugar mommy. Think of an age range, body type, and so on to get a gist for this.
- Are you prepared to be public about this relationship? – It can happen that your sugar dating partner will want to take you out and show you off. Be prepared for this kind of scenario and make sure you are comfortable with however you agree to present yourselves.
- How effectively can you communicate? – Always make sure that you can clearly and effectively communicate with your sugar dating partner. Whether it is setting the ground rules or arranging play for later, make it clear what is expected of each person there from the start.
Establishing these ideas for yourself will help you better understand what you are getting into, and your position as you get into it. It is important to remember that the relationship between a sugar mommy/daddy and their sugar baby is like a contract, so if they don’t hold up their end, get out.
How to get a sugar daddy or mommy?
Finding a sugar dating partner can be a tricky deal if you aren’t already connected with someone in person who might know someone else. A good approach is to go to bars that cater to older men and women and chat them up.
By far the best approach is to look online at dedicated sugar dating services, including websites and apps. Here you will know what other people are looking for, and there can be no uncertainty about the kind of arrangement people might want.
Tips to stay safe as you start being a male sugarbaby
One of the most important rules of thumb for online dating, and perhaps dating in general, is to tell someone what you are doing. If you wanted to keep your sugar dating private then you will have to do it at your own risk, but it is much smarter to tell a friend what you are doing.
Make sure someone knows if you do go out sugar dating for the first time with someone. If you don’t want to tell them anything about your sugar dating then just tell them it is a date online. Give them your location and make sure the first meeting is in a public place.
Take your safety as a priority, and if at any point you feel like the sugar relationship is getting out of control or is no longer comfortable then just break it off.